The left likes to bathe in a minutia of details until those details become inconvenient. Then they like to forget them and make up their own details.  The definition of assault is imposing yourself on someone else against their will. While the language on the tape was crude and not something I approve of, nothing in that tape suggested that he did anything against anyone's will; he used the words "they let you". People don't generally "let you" assault them, whether it be sexually or violen